The Constant Answer of ''I Don't Know'' with Spirituality and Psychic/Mediumship
A lot of times with spiritual stuff we just don't know the answer- we don't have a truth. We have guesses, maybe probable guesses based on our own experiences with the psychic/medium or spiritual world. This reddit question has me saying "I don't know", which is a phrase you need to become comfortable with in a lifetime of learning the truth, your truth. Here's the question from the subreddit of Mediums:
Advice needed from other mediums about a spirit who doesn’t realize he’s dead
TL;DR: I currently have a neutral, harmless human spirit residing with me that doesn’t realize he’s dead. This is a first for me in my 38yrs of life- all spirits I’ve made personal contact with have known and acknowledged they were transformed into Spirit on some level
I would like to know the gentlest way to begin the process of having The Talk about being dead with him, please :)
Context: On Samhain, after setting appropriate protections, I held a dumb supper, inviting any positive or neutral spirit that needed assistance to come sit and eat with me. A businessman showed up, and quickly took up residence with me.
He is so deep in denial, he sees my home as a hotel, and I am part of the wait staff. He’s on a business trip, waiting for a call to go into the office. He asks me to change the linens every morning. I laugh, but it’s also incredibly sad
I know and trust two mediums IRL, and they’re both incredibly gifted at remote viewing (I am not so great at it). They’ve both independently confirmed this poor man died on a business trip and he thinks he’s still on it.
Both of my medium friends have suggested I just tell him he’s dead, and keep repeatedly telling him until he gets it. I know this method has worked for them in the past, and I trust their counsel.
But I am not quite a… blunt individual. As I have plenty of time and space to deal with this spirit (I generally have a low volume of spirits coming through, a few a week at most, until last year), I am not in a rush to pop this guy’s bubble and get him moving. I WILL do that, if it’s my only recourse, but I’d like to ease him into it, if possible?
So far my plan is to befriend him, get to know him on a personal level, build mutual rapport. Then have The Talk.
May I ask, from other experienced mediums, will that work? Or are my friends correct, and I should just rip off the bandaid?
This will be a time investment for me if I go through with my plan, so I thought I’d ask others before this continues on further.
I am grateful for your time, energy and wisdom, fellow mediums. Have a blessed day!
